Notice anything different?
No more .blogspot.com for me!
I'm a grown up now.
OK, maybe that's pushing it. So let's just say my blog is growing up. And right now it's still going through a few growing pains.
I know, the name of my blog and the name of my domain are now NOT the same.
Because "The Squashed Bologna"? Is a mouthful. And everyone spells "bologna" differently.
Personally I just don't get it, because "baloney" is just wrong. Oscar Mayer hammered that into me at a young age. For all you young things reading this who were not kids in the '60s & early '70s, and are head scratching at that reference, watch THIS. Now imagine seeing THAT nearly every day for years. You'll never spell it wrong again.
And while "The Squashed Bologna: a slice of life in the sandwich generation" is going to remain the name of my blog -- since I so clearly AM still quite stuck smack dab in the middle of the sandwich, and since "squashed" doesn't even begin to describe how I'm feeling most days, what with my Mother-in-Law's passing, and Jake's new school, and all my Mother's neediness -- I wanted something... catchier for my domain name.
And since I'm squashedmom on Twitter, I figured why not go for it. So I'm rocking the mom.com rhyme thing, now.
And it may help make clear that I'm a MOM blog, not a food blog (or an Italian travel blog, if you try to pronounce "Bologna" that way.)
But now that other part: My blog is fugly, I know that.
|Here is what my blog looked like as I was writing this post. Hopefully soon you will be viewing this post in the archives on my lovely, newly designed blog and need this visual reference for the fugly.|
I need a banner and a logo and a cute little button. And a kick ass background. You know: a DESIGN.
Problem is I have no idea what I want to do with it.
Or rather I have too many ideas, and none of them quite right. I'm not cutesy and girly, but I do love flowers. I'm not the stark and modern minimalist type either, although I love abstract imagery and design elements. I admire the simplicity of black words on white and bold black & white graphics but I am a lover of color, and generally, the more saturated the better (or hadn't you noticed the lurid purple of my current "design"?)
And then I need to somehow have the design match up at least somewhat with the content and/or tone of my blog. But not at all literally. Because visuals for squashed? Bologna? The whole sandwich thing, as a metaphoric image? Yuk. Not a food blogger, remember?
So I'm a bit stumped.
And I know I need to get a designer to do everything right, as I'm not really a techie (though I love to dabble in a little HTML tampering occasionally.) And once again, the problem here is that I don't have the $$$ to lay out for what is currently a hobby (although of course I have dreams of "the more".) Also I am finding I have a fierce and stubborn DIY streak emerging around this, have caught myself nursing delusions of teaching myself HTML in order to do it all on my own. Overnight. Not. bloody. likely.
So bear with me for now, while I work this all out; visit a thousand blog designers' sites; ponder why I love the designs I love and brood over if they would work for me. There may even be an intermediate step on the way to fabulous. Because the more I have been looking at other blogs to get a feel for what I do and don't want on mine? The more dissatisfied I am every time I go back to look at mine own. In fact, it's driving me a bit crazy.
My only excuse for the current look? My favorite color is purple. Has been since I was six. And not wanting a literal image, I went for an abstract purpley light burst. It could be worse. I think.
So, let me leave you with the family story I borrowed this blog post title from:
It is one of the mythic stories of my childhood, that when they finally brought me to my mother, (after she hollered and yelled and refused to do anything unless they. brought. me. to. her. NOW!) my mom scooped me up and cooed at me: "You may not be the most beautiful baby in the world, but you're mine, all mine!"
And, yes, I fattened up and a few weeks later was supposedly a knock-out (and Dad even used me as a model for his advertising photography portfolio.)
|Mother and child, 1960 by Jim Steinhardt|
P.S. If anyone out there is or has a great and reasonably affordable blog designer, please let me know!